The Decorum Standard

How you’re read before you speak

Era 04 of 10

The Lookbook · Era 04 of 10

The 1950s

The grey flannel suit

Plate A, The 1950s
04 · Plate A · The world · Open full size

On the record

The uniform was available to more men than the building was.

Commuting hour, mid 1950s

Black and white roll film · family snapshot

Plate B, The 1950s, photograph and drawing
04 · Plate B · The specimen · Open full size

What the room read

As photographed

  • AIdentical to the man behind him. That was the achievement
  • BWhite shirt. There was no second option
  • CHat still on, and the habit had ten years left

How it was built

As drawn

  • 1Three buttons, the top one softly rolled
  • 2Undarted front. It hangs straight from the shoulder
  • 3Natural shoulder. No structure at all
  • 4Straight leg with a cuff. The same as every other man

What the decade expected

Six statements

What the room wanted

That you be indistinguishable from the man beside you

How men addressed each other

Mr. Anderson, possibly forever

What effort looked like

Arriving early and saying little

What got you excluded

Being visibly yourself. And who you were

What the clothes were doing

Buying admission to the commute

Cost of getting it wrong

Quiet, and it followed you

What it looked like

Era 04 of 10

In America, the sack. Undarted, natural shoulder, straight hanging, three buttons with the top one rolled soft so you never used it. Brooks Brothers had been cutting it since 1901 and this was its peak. Grey flannel, charcoal, navy. White shirt. Repp tie. It was a uniform in everything but name, and it was worn by an entire white-collar class that had just been invented.

Sloan Wilson published The Man in the Gray Flannel Suit in 1955 and the film followed the next year, and the title entered the language immediately because it named something everyone had already noticed. The suit was no longer a mark of individual standing. It was the price of admission to the commute.

Grooming was short, neat, and identical. Hats were still worn but the habit was slipping, and it had been slipping since the twenties, whatever anybody tells you about a single president and a single inauguration.

What it sounded like

Era 04 of 10

Deference to authority, restored and formalised. Sir and ma'am. A hard register between generations that neither side questioned much. Mr. Anderson at the office was Mr. Anderson to you for years, and possibly forever.

Corporate speech arrived: the memo, the committee, the meeting as a form. Men learned a professional voice that was distinct from how they spoke at home, and the ability to switch between the two was itself the qualification.

What it felt like

Era 04 of 10

Safe, legible, and narrow.

The trade was explicit and most men took it knowingly. You accepted a standard that told you exactly what was expected, and in exchange you got security and a clear path, and you gave up the right to be much of an individual inside it. It worked, for a while, for the men it was built for.

Be honest about who that was. The legibility ran on a set of exclusions that were not incidental. A code that everybody understands is not the same as a code that everybody is allowed into, and the fifties was the last decade where the difference could be ignored by the people it favoured.

What we kept

Legibility. You knew what the room wanted and the room told you plainly.

What we lost

Room to be a person inside the uniform, and, eventually, the patience of everyone the uniform excluded.

On the pictures

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