The Decorum Standard

How you’re read before you speak

Era 05 of 10

The Lookbook · Era 05 of 10

The 1960s

The break

Plate A, The 1960s
05 · Plate A · The world · Open full size

On the record

The rules were still there. They just stopped being obeyed.

City street, 1965

Kodachrome II · 35mm transparency

Plate B, The 1960s, photograph and drawing
05 · Plate B · The specimen · Open full size

What the room read

As photographed

  • AJacket open. Ten years earlier that was a statement
  • BNo hat. The first thing any room noticed
  • CStanding loose. Deference is visibly optional now

How it was built

As drawn

  • 1Lapel narrow. The chest reads high and close
  • 2Jacket shortened. The seat is no longer covered
  • 3Armhole cut high so the arm moves alone
  • 4Trouser tapered, break shortened

What the decade expected

Six statements

What the room wanted

It stopped agreeing what it wanted

How men addressed each other

First names, newly, and not always welcome

What effort looked like

Suspect for the first time

What got you excluded

Being on the wrong side of thirty

What the clothes were doing

Picking a side

Cost of getting it wrong

Contested. Somebody would argue

What it looked like

Era 05 of 10

Two decades in one, and the seam is right down the middle.

The first half runs on a cut that had been building since 1952, when Brioni put men's tailoring on a runway in Florence and then took it to New York. Roman and Neapolitan tailoring made the jacket lighter: less canvas, less padding, shorter, slimmer, cut close. By the early sixties that was the modern look and the American sack suit was suddenly the thing your father wore.

Then it comes apart. What Esquire ended up calling the Peacock Revolution put colour, pattern, velvet, ruffles and historical costume onto men who had spent their lives in charcoal, and it did it fast. Hair got long. The tie widened. The suit stopped being the default and became one option among several, which had not been true in living memory.

By 1969 there was no answer to the question of what a man wears to a serious room. There had been a clear answer in 1959.

What it sounded like

Era 05 of 10

The formality of address starts giving way. Be careful with this one: nobody can point to the year first names took over, and the honest version is that it was a slow slide across the middle of the century rather than a switch anybody flipped. What is true is that by the end of the sixties, calling a senior man by his first name was no longer automatically presumptuous, and thirty years earlier it had been.

Underneath that, the bigger change. Authority stopped being self-justifying. The question "who decided this and why" became askable in rooms where it previously had not been, and once a generation learns to ask it they don't unlearn it.

What it felt like

Era 05 of 10

Like the ground moving. For younger men, freeing. For older men, a straight loss of a code they had held up their end of for thirty years and now found themselves being laughed at for.

Both of those readings are fair, and the site's position is that the sixties got the diagnosis right and the prescription wrong. A code that excludes people deserves to be challenged. What actually happened is that the challenge took the whole structure with it, including the parts that were just instructions.

What we kept

The right to ask what a rule is for instead of obeying it because it exists.

What we lost

The shared code, and with it the assumption that the man across the table is reading the same signals you are.

On the pictures

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