The Decorum Standard

How you’re read before you speak

Era 09 of 10

The Lookbook · Era 09 of 10

The 2000s

Effort becomes the thing to hide

Plate A, The 2000s
09 · Plate A · The world · Open full size

On the record

Effort became the only real embarrassment left.

Startup office, 2006

4 megapixel compact · xenon flash

Plate B, The 2000s, photograph and drawing
09 · Plate B · The specimen · Open full size

What the room read

As photographed

  • AUntucked. The whole statement is I did not try
  • BBlazer doing no work. It is there to be dismissed
  • CWatch and ring. The last formality standing

How it was built

As drawn

  • 1Blazer unstructured. It is doing no work at all
  • 2Shirt cut long so it can be worn out
  • 3No waist, no line, nothing measured
  • 4Denim breaking heavily over a casual shoe

What the decade expected

Six statements

What the room wanted

That you not look like you tried

How men addressed each other

First names, or a handle

What effort looked like

The only real embarrassment left

What got you excluded

Being overdressed

What the clothes were doing

Claiming not to be a decision

Cost of getting it wrong

Paid quietly, in rooms you never got back into

What it looked like

Era 09 of 10

Untucked. Distressed. Deliberately unconsidered.

The decade's real innovation was inverting the signal. For a hundred years, dressing up meant you took the occasion seriously. Now dressing up meant you were trying, and trying meant you were not senior enough to skip it. The most powerful man in the building was the one in a fleece, and everybody understood exactly what that fleece was saying.

The tie went first. The Men's Dress Furnishings Association, the American necktie trade body, folded in 2008 after sixty years, with membership down from around 120 manufacturers in the 1980s to twenty-five. When a trade association dissolves, the argument is over.

What replaced the suit was not another code. It was a scatter, and the scatter was full of small traps for men who had never been told anything: jeans that fit nobody, a blazer over a graphic tee, shoes bought for a different decade.

What it sounded like

Era 09 of 10

Informality as proof of authenticity. Speaking casually became evidence that you were not managing anyone's impression, which was, of course, a way of managing everyone's impression.

The word "authentic" did a lot of work in that decade and most of it was dishonest. A man in a hoodie on a stage is making a presentation decision. He is just making one that claims not to be one.

What it felt like

Era 09 of 10

Like effort was the only real embarrassment left.

You could be underdressed and it cost you nothing. You could be overdressed and it cost you immediately, because it read as either trying too hard or not knowing better, and both of those are worse in a status economy than being sloppy. So men resolved the uncertainty downward, permanently, and a whole generation stopped learning any of this.

What we kept

The collapse of formality that had no purpose left. Some of what went, deserved to go.

What we lost

The ability to mark an occasion. When everything is the same register, nothing can be raised.

On the pictures

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