The Decorum Standard

How you’re read before you speak

Era 10 of 10

The Lookbook · Era 10 of 10

The 2010s to now

The vacuum

Plate A, The 2010s to now
10 · Plate A · The world · Open full size

On the record

The rules are gone and the judgment stayed.

Co-working floor, today

Smartphone · computational HDR

Plate B, The 2010s to now, photograph and drawing
10 · Plate B · The specimen · Open full size

What the room read

As photographed

  • ATechnical fabric. Dressed for a gym he will not visit
  • BSneakers everywhere, including here
  • CNothing on him tells the room anything

How it was built

As drawn

  • 1Overshirt instead of a jacket. Nothing is built
  • 2No lapel, no roll, no structure to read
  • 3Flat technical seam. There is no tailoring here
  • 4Cropped hem over a sneaker. Deliberate, and unmeasured

What the decade expected

Six statements

What the room wanted

Unstated, and enforced anyway

How men addressed each other

First names to everyone, including three levels up

What effort looked like

Nothing. There is no register left for it

What got you excluded

You will not be told

What the clothes were doing

Nothing. That is the vacuum

Cost of getting it wrong

Still real. Still unstated

What it looked like

Era 10 of 10

Athleisure, and then the reset.

Technical fabric moved from the gym into the office and then into everything, and it did it because it was comfortable and because there was no longer any authority positioned to say no. Sneakers went everywhere. The dress code was not rewritten, it was deleted, and Goldman Sachs going flexible firmwide in March 2019 was the last domino rather than the first.

Then 2020 finished it. American men's formal clothing sales fell by roughly three quarters year over year in the spring of that year, and search interest in suits hit its lowest point in seven years. Men worked for two years in rooms nobody else entered, and a meaningful number of them have not put on a jacket since.

Which leaves the current situation, and it is genuinely strange. There is more information about menswear available than at any point in history, and less instruction than at any point in history. Those are not the same thing and the gap between them is where most men are stuck.

What it sounded like

Era 10 of 10

Every register flattened into one. First names to everyone, including people three levels up and people you have never met. No reliable way to signal that a conversation is serious, because the vocabulary that used to do it now reads as stiff.

The rules that remain are unwritten, unstable and enforced anyway, which is the worst combination available. You can still get it wrong. Nobody will tell you that you did.

What it felt like

Era 10 of 10

Free, and completely unlit.

Here is the actual condition. The rules are gone and the judgment stayed. You are still read in about three seconds, in rooms that still decide things, by people who still have opinions about your shoes. The scoring did not stop when the code did. The only thing that stopped was anybody being willing to tell you the score.

That's not nostalgia and this is not an argument for going backward. Most of what got dismantled deserved it. But something has to stand where the instruction used to be, because the reading never paused, and a man who was never taught is not competing on equal terms with a man who was.

What we kept

Freedom. Nobody can refuse you a table over a hat.

What we lost

Instruction. And that's the gap this is for.

On the pictures

Read this before you cite anything

Every photograph in the Lookbook is generated. None of it is archival. Where a plate states something as fact, the claim points at the historical record, which is checkable, and never at the picture above it.